Men’s role in women’s rise to power in conflict-resolution processes
An uncomfortable truth: the gender turf war at UN CSW
“It’s the paradox of the global women’s movement: we disapprovingly wonder aloud where all the men are when we convene to discuss so-called “women’s” issues […] but then we bristle when the boys show up and want a turn at the microphone.”Open Democracy
In her article, Lyric Thompson draws on the issue of excluding men from conflict resolution and peace building. She argues that including men is not detrimental to women’s rights but necessary, noting the importance of educating men in particular.
“ Women for Women International have also piloted a men’s program in four of our chapters – Iraq , Afghanistan , Nigeria and the Congo, The Democratic Republic of the – to engage male leaders as allies and advocates for women’s rights and value to the economy and society. These leaders then spread the good word to other men in their networks, which tend to be the networks that control the majority of the power and resources in the community. Then we have men and women learning about women’s rights and value, in an environment where women are increasingly able to access those rights and everybody understands it’s a good thing.”
The value of education
Thompson’s claim is seconded by the Peace Building Initiative, in the report Empowerment: Women & Gender Issues: Women, Gender & Peace building processes’, in which context and education are considered fundamental:
“Many formal peace building activities and policies suffer from an insufficient understanding or acknowledgment of the diverse communities in which they operate. Gender analysis can bring to light the experiences of men and women during conflict and peace, assess needs, and show how gender relations change during and due to conflict and peace.”Peace Building Initiative
Voicing the men
NOMAS
[“We affirm that working to make this nation’s ideals of equality substantive is the finest expression of what it means to be men.[…] We applaud and support the insights and positive social changes that feminism has stimulated for both women and men. We oppose such injustices to women as economic and legal discrimination, Rape , Domestic violence , Sexual Harassment , and many others. Women and men can and do work together as allies to change the injustices that have so often made them see one another as enemies.” NOMASVideo, A Call to Men
Tony Porter is the visionary and co-founder behind the non-profit A Call To Men: The National Association of Men and Women Committed to Ending Violence Against Women. In this TED Talk, he stresses the importance of being able to free oneself from the “man box”.
Conclusion
Despite the understanding that men are most often the cause of Violence against women in conflicts, they are intricately linked to the solution. Silencing them or limiting their role in post-conflict reconciliation, reintegration and peace building could lead to lesser results in those domains. The solutions explored all revolve around Access to Education and its importance in shaping respectful interactions between genders. Through education, limitations such as the “man box” descibed by Tony Porter can be overcome.
References
See also
- Engaging Men and Boys as Allies for Long-Term Change (UN Women) September 23, 2011
- Women and peace organisations
- Women and peace organisations United Nations Security Council Resolution 1325
- United Nations Security Council Resolution 1325
- Women for Women International
- The role of women in conflict resolution and peacebuilding